Designing the Perfect Engagement Ring
North Carolina is home to world-world-rennouned ring designer Charles Babbs. While he and his wife Susan call Lenoir, NC home, people come to him from around the world to help them design a one-of-a-kind ring they will treasure forever.
Whether you choose to purchase a custom ring or not, it’s important to do your homework before walking into a jewelry shop.
Take a look at our step by step guide below to help take the stress out of ring shopping.
1. Choose a Ring Style
This first step may be the hardest part of your engagement ring process. To start, think about the styles of clothing and jewelry your partner usually wears, or gravitates to. Discuss this with your jeweler and this will help you decide on what style she would like; Classic, Modern, Antique, Glamourous, Nature Inspires, or a combination there of. Think back to any hints that your partner may have dropped, or check out their Pinterest for any images they may have pinned.
2. Choose a Gemstone
While diamonds may still be the ‘rule’ when it comes to engagement rings, there are more exceptions to this rule today than ever before. While the most classic ring style features a center diamond, your partner may crave something more unique or in line with her personality. She may prefer a ring with no stone at all. Again, think back to conversations the two of you have had or any hints she may have dropped for you over your relationship. Sapphires are the second most common gemstone for engagement rings, so if you don’t think a diamond would suit her, maybe this popular stone does. Did you know that sapphires come in a variety of other colors than deep blue? Ask your jeweler to show you what other gemstones are available.
3. The 4 Cs
You may have heard this term before, but what does it really mean and how important are they when selecting a diamond? Each diamond is graded according to these four Cs: Carat, Cut, Clarity, and Color. Finding the perfect balance between these 4 characteristics will ensure you get the best diamond for your partner (and your budget)
Cut
A diamond’s cut is directly related to the its overall beauty. When a diamond has been correctly cut, the diamond’s ability to reflect and refract light is greatly enhanced. By understanding the way that light moves through diamond crystals, modern diamond cutters have established a specific set of proportions and angles that are known to harness the diamond’s internal brilliance and to show it in its best light.
Color
All diamonds have some degree of color. A diamond’s color is caused by natural trace elements of nitrogen that were present when the diamond formed under the Earth’s crust. A diamond with less color will exhibit greater brilliance and fire, be considered rarer, and therefore be of more value.
Clarity
The presence of natural inclusions and blemishes on and within a diamond impacts its appearance and value. Inclusions may be crystals of a foreign material or structural imperfections such as tiny cracks, known as feathers, which can appear whitish or cloudy. The quantity, size, color, location, orientation, and visibility of inclusions all affect the final clarity grade of a diamond. Diamonds with no or few inclusions are considered particularly rare and highly valued.
Carat
Carat size is a personal preference and the most visually apparent factor when comparing diamonds.
4. Choose a Precious Metal
You are creating a ring that your partner will be wearing forever and the type of metal and color is as big of a part in this ring as the stone is. In addition to the different looks and colors of each of these options, they each come with their own characteristics, performance, and, of course, price tags. Here is some information to get your started:
Platinum
Characteristics
Enduring, strong, and lasts a lifetime Composed of 95% platinum and 5% other pure alloys
Price
A rare and expensive precious metal
Performance
Strongest precious metal
Resistant to damage
Does not wear away
Develops a satin finish
Platinum is hypoallergenic
Highest level of purity
18k Gold
Characteristics
A classic metal with high gold purity Composed of 75% gold and 25% pure alloys
Price
Less expensive than platinum, yet highly valued
Performance
Softer, malleable metal
Easy to polish and repair
Resistant to rust and tarnishing
18k yellow gold is rich in color
Has a distinct heritage
14k Gold
Characteristics
A strong metal that is popular in fine jewelry Composed of 58.3% gold and 41.7% pure alloys
Price
Less expensive than 18k gold, yet offers great value
Performance
Known for strength
Longer wear due to hardness
Easy to polish and repair
Resistant to rust and tarnishing
Moderate in color compared to 18k yellow gold
Palladium
Characteristics
A rare metal with the highest purity Composed of 95% palladium and 5% other pure alloys
Price
Less expensive than platinum, yet offers great value
Performance
Known for strength, yet lighter than platinum
Has a natural and permanent whiteness
Easy to polish and repair
Resistant to corrosion, oxidation, and tarnishing
Palladium is hypoallergenic
It is scratch-resistant
5. Choose a Setting
You’ve already chosen the perfect stone (or stones) for her, now it’s time to ensure it’s showcased to its best advantage. The setting defines the look, so when you are shopping, be sure to look at a wide variety of rings, even the ones you aren’t a huge fan of, to see the difference a setting can make on its overall style.
Prong
Permits the most light exposure from all angles and therefore maximizes a diamond's brilliance and "lightens up" richly colored gems.
Less metal means less time and money is required than other setting styles.
Allows easy cleaning of the stone.
Holds even the most fragile (soft) gems securely.
Tension
Allows a lot of light into the stone.
Bezel
Protects a stone's girdle from being nicked or chipped.
Conceals existing nicks or chips on a stone's girdle.
Secures a stone well.
The ring surface is completely smooth.
Metal can be molded to fit any stone shape snugly.
A white metal encircling a white stone can make the stone appear larger.
A yellow gold bezel setting can enhance the color of red or green gemstones.
Channel
Protects the girdle of the stones.
Provides better security for small stones than a prong or pave setting.
The surface is completely smooth and unobtrusive.
Bar
Protects the sides of each stone's girdle.
The surface is relatively smooth and unobtrusive.
Puts a contemporary spin on a classic look.
Pave
Gives the illusion of more and bigger diamonds than they really are.
Allows an uninterrupted design flow of varying width.
Gypsy
Protects a stone's girdle from being nicked or chipped.
Conceals existing nicks or chips on a stone's girdle.
Secures a stone well.
The ring surface is completely smooth.
6. Don’t Forget Her Ring Size!
Determining your partner’s ring size can be tricky, but there are ways to figure it out without coming straight out and asking her. You can sneak one of her rings and take it with you to the jeweler. If it’s a ring she would notice missing, you can trace it on a sheet of paper and take that in instead. The most common women’s ring size is 6-6.5. You will want to err on the large side if you are unsure. Remember that most people rarely take off their engagement ring, meaning they will be wearing through summer, winter, exercise and pregnancy when fingers swell and contract. Most rings can be resized, so talk with your jeweler about their policy.
